Friday, November 7, 2008

Ipoh pigi 上霸罗

I am leaving for Ipoh at 3:45 pm to meet up with Raymond Yong. Raymond has traveled from Penang to Ipoh this morning.

Peter Cho, the ever-ready warm host is taking care of Raymond right now. We shall stay a night at Peter's house and come down to KL tomorrow afternoon.

Ipoh chicken, sar ho fan, dim sam, Old town white coffee.... here I come !!!


我等下(3:45 pm )将前往怡保(也叫霸罗),会合Raymond Yong. 他今早从槟城乘搭巴士到怡保游玩。

当然是有好客的兴文接待啦! 我们将住在兴文的家一晚,然后在明天下午回到吉隆坡。

从前有句口头禅: 亮哥哥,去霸罗。我就是亮哥哥了!

芽菜鸡、沙河粉、点心、老街场白咖啡。。。。。!!!我来了。

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Extraordinary 不平常

Feasting again!

Last night I went for a wedding dinner of my fellow legionary's son at HGH Hall in Sentul, Kuala Lumpur. I was sharing a table with Francis and his wife Linda.

Whenever I see them, my heart filled with joy and gladness. They always smile and full of enthusiasm to share whatever they are doing, especially their church and BEC activities. Right now they are busy involved with the fund raising dinner which will be held at the same venue this coming Saturday. They are raising fund for the new church complex of their Jesus Caritas Church in Kepong.

It needs extra effort for anyone to take up this task, more so if you are having certain health condition. Francis is a renal failure patient for about 8 years and needs dialysis three times a week. It is a heavy burden for him, physically and financially. He bears it courageously. He lives life with faith and hope with the support of family especially his wife Linda. He has a regular job but is active in church activities too. Francis and Linda are legionaries who do regular visit to the sick and aged.

I admired his courage, faith and trust in God. He is a shining example for me in bearing life's suffering and pain.

May our Lord continue to bless him with courage and protect him and his family always.




From left: Francis & Linda
左起:淇友和美珍



又是大吃。

昨晚我去参加甲洞军友梁国英第二儿子结婚的喜宴。婚宴是在冼都黄岳海礼堂举行,场面热闹隆重。我和王淇友、林美珍夫妇同桌。

每当我见到这对夫妇的时候,心里就会涌出一股感恩及喜悦的情怀。他们满怀笑容,很热忱的和我交谈,也常分享他们的工作,特别是堂区及BEC, 以及圣母军的工作。目前他们正忙着帮忙筹备将在这个星期六,在同一个礼堂举行的大型筹款晚宴。这宴会是为他们的堂区,甲洞圣爱堂兴建新教堂基金筹款的。

假如参加这么繁重的工作,任何人都必须作出额外的付出。假如你有健康状况的话,那你的付出必是更多了。淇友是一位有八年历史的肾病患者,每个星期必须机器洗肾三次。这对他身体及经济方面,是一个很大的负担。

但他勇敢的去面对这些问题。他以坚强的信德,家人的支持,特别是太太的相伴,怀着希望的生活着每一个日子。除了有一份工作之外,他也很活跃的参与教会的工作和活动。他和太太都是圣母军团员,故此也时常做拜访病人及老人的工作。

我非常敬佩他的勇敢,坚强的信德和对主的依持。他是我的学习模范,特别是勇于面对人生的病痛和挑战。

感谢主,经过六年的等待,他终于被接受到靠近住家的政府医院洗肾。对他来说,这确是减少了来往的距离,节省时间,也减轻了他的经济负担。阿肋路亚!

祈求上主继续的护佑他,给他勇气,并降福他及家人平安快乐。

** Thanks to Francis and Linda for allowing me to share their story and picture.
谢谢淇友及美珍允许我分享他们的故事及照片。


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Not so good 不很好

I am very disturbed today.

Fr. Leo Chang's condition not getting better. Yesterday and today his stomach blotted and having difficulty passing motion. Dr. ordered fasting so that a scan can be done. This is a clear sign of worsening of his cancer.

One floor below, a young man who is close to Fr. Leo, and sometimes stayed overnight with him, is undergoing "Stapled Hemorrhoidectomy" for his haemorrhoids problem. He is still in the Operation Theater now. He has blood and stomach problem also.

I was not able to visit Fr. today but my wife did. She just informed me Dr. has found out it was water retention that caused the swelling of stomach. He has prescribed medication and hoped it works.

Please pray for both of them. Mother Mary, comfort them.


我今天心神不安。

张学理神父在昨天和今天很不舒服。他的肚子膨胀,不能排便。医生要他禁食,以便做扫描。这是癌症恶化的征兆。

在下一层楼里,一位和神父很亲近,有时还过夜陪神父的年轻人,正在进行痔疮切割手术。目前还在手术室。这年轻人还有血液及胃的健康问题。

今天我不能去探访神父,但太太去了看她。根据太太刚给我讯息,医生验断神父是水肿,已经出药给他服食,希望情况会好转。

请为他们祈祷。圣母玛利亚,请护慰他们。

Raymond's visit 有朋到来

On 4/11/08 Tuesday, Raymond Yong and family of Kota Kinabalu came to Peninsular Malaysia for a short holiday. I took him from Airport to Kajang for Satay (what else?).

Later I sent him to his younger brother Edmond's house in Bandar Tun Hussein Onn, Jln Cheras. Edmond has a pair of twin girls, Audrea and Audrey. Audrey is my God-daughter.

Raymond left for Langkawi and Penang the next day. He will be backed to KL this weekend.


















亚庇的Raymond 及家人在4/11/08 星期二,来西马度假。 我去机场接机,然后到加影吃沙爹(别无他选)。

过后,我把他们送到胡先翁镇他弟弟的家。他弟弟Edmond 有一对孪生女儿,Audrea 和 Audrey。Audrey 是我的代女。

Raymond 在隔天就到兰加屿及槟城游玩,然后在周末回到吉隆坡。














Now (left) and then (18/02/08)

Sunday, November 2, 2008

沾花惹草有烦恼 Planting trouble

膝盖骨痛,成为我少运动及少活动的理由,也是籍口。不怪得体重也增加了。

家里有好几棵盆栽,早就应该换泥土和修饰了,但都是拖,一拖再拖,就好几个月了。其实还有许多其他的花木需要照顾,但都交由太太打理了。总之就是“懒”!

今天傍晚,心血来潮,体会到再不行动,不只花木会抗议,连老婆都会发火了。

先从最大,最老的那盆开始吧。懒人工作多折磨,忽然下起毛毛雨。。。但还是得坚持下去,我警告自己“不能停”,不然就是遥遥无期了。

这些盆栽,是岳父母在我们二十五年前搬进这间屋子时送的。当时树龄都应该有整十年以上吧,所以这些盆栽都至少有整三十五岁了。

清泥,修根等,确是要花很多功夫。我想这得用上两天(傍晚)的时间才能够完成吧!

My knee condition has been my reason and excuse for inactivity. It is also the cause of me putting on weight.

We have a few pots of Bonsai plant needed soil change and pruning. I have procrastinated for a few months. In fact we have many other potted plants needed regular care, but my wife has taken over the job. I am lazy.

This evening, I sensed the urgency for action. Any further delay will cause not only protest from the plants but also incur the wrath from my wife.

I picked the biggest and oldest of the lot to begin with. Lazy workman, good excuse.... it drizzled... But I told myself "steady...don't stop" otherwise I will never start again.

The Bonsai were given to us by my parents in law when we moved in to this house about 25 years ago. So all the Bonsai must be more than 35 years old now.

It was a tedious work. Cleaning soil, trimming roots..... it needed two evening to complete one plant.

All Souls Day 追思已亡日

Holy Family Cemetery, Kajang 加影圣家墓园


The Catholic Church dedicated 1st November as All Saints Day and 2nd November as All Souls Day.

Today we pray for the faithful departed, those who have been baptised, been faithful to their faith, but need to be completely purified of all stain of sin before they come into full union with God in Heaven. We called this stage The Purgatory.

Besides attending Masses, Catholics also visit the graves of their departed loved one.

All Souls Day is a day of remembering our faithful departed, and also is a day for us to reflect on our own lives and our faith. Let us pray together and in union with the saints in Heaven and the souls in the Purgatory for the glorious day when we are united and see God face to face.

“ Remember, Lord, those who have died and have gone before us marked with the sign of faith. May these, and all who sleep in Christ, find in your presence light, happiness and peace"

Tomb of Rev. Fr. Philip So
苏召德神父之墓


天主教会定下每年的十一月一日为诸圣日,十一月二日为追思已亡日。

今天我们追思已亡的亲人和信友。他们已被圣洗,坚守信德,且已经获得永生的许诺,但却还没有完全净化一切的罪污,所以尚未能和圣洁的天主相聚。他们还在炼狱之中,作最后的净化。

除了参加弥撒为亡者祈祷外,天主教徒也到墓园追思祈祷。

追思已亡日是纪念已亡的一天,也是我们反省自己的生活和信仰的一天。让我们联同在天的圣者,炼狱中的灵魂,一同祈祷我们在主内相聚,和见到仁慈天主面对面那一天的到来。

“上主,求你也垂念我们的祖先和你的仆人,他们保持着信德,先我们而去,如今正在安眠休息。上主,求你赏赐他们及所有安息于基督怀中的人,进入永福,光明和安宁的天乡。”

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Saturday, November 1, 2008

All Saints Day 诸圣日

Today is All Saints Day, a day of obligation. All Catholics are to attend Mass today to remember and honor all the saints, known and unknown.

There are thousands and thousands of early Christians martyrs, the majority of whose names are known only to God. Throughout the history of the Church there have been countless others who really are saints, who are with God in heaven, even if their names are not on the list of canonized saints.

we celebrate these saints of the Lord, and ask for their prayers and intercessions in the belief of the Communion of Saints.

".....These are the people who have been through the great persecution, and they have washed their robes white again in the blood of the Lamb" (Rev 7:14)

Today, there are many Christians being persecuted in many regions of the world,such as India, Afghanistan, Iraq, Pakistan, China and Vietnam. They suffered and died because of their belief in Christ.Let us pray to the saints in heaven to protect those who are under persecution, and may the lives of the saints be the shining path of courage and perseverance for them to bear their sufferings in hope.

I asked the intercession of saints for the Grace of perseverance in our faith for all members of my family.



今天是诸圣日,每位天主教徒都必须参加今天的弥撒,以纪念和光荣圣人和徇道者,有名的或无名的。

有千千万万早期为信仰而徇道的基督徒,只有天主知道他们的名字。教会的发展历史中,已有数不尽的圣人,虽然名字不在圣者名册里,但他们已经和天主在天享光荣了。

我们今天就是在欢庆这些天主的圣者,并祈求他们的代祷,因为我们相信诸圣的相通功。

“。。这些人是在大灾难中来的,他们曾在羔羊的血中洗净了自己的衣裳,使衣裳雪白” (默7:14)

今天,在世界许多地区,仍然有很多基督教徒受到迫害。他们受压迫,苦难,甚至死亡,就是因为他们相信耶稣。这些地区包括印度,巴基斯坦,伊拉克,阿富汗,中国,越南等地。让我们一同祈求圣人为他们祈求保护,也希望这些圣人的生平勇敢榜样,成为这些受迫害者的勇气和支撑之道路,使到他们勇敢的怀着希望,承受他们的痛苦迫害。

我也要求圣人的转祷,祈求给予我及家人信仰的坚持和刚毅的恩宠。


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Wednesday, October 29, 2008

chicken,dog ,delicious food 鸡 、狗 、佳肴

Yesterday, a day after Deepavali (28/10/08), my wife and I went down to FARM to collect a puppy from Andrew.

Andrew slaughtered a 3+ kg "neutered" chicken specially for us. It was a special bred chicken for its succulent tasty meat. It can fetch more than RM150.00 if sold to restaurant.










Instead of one, we took back a pair of cute puppies which is a cross between pincher and Chihuahua.

Later in the evening, we have a RCIA fellowship at one of our team members' house. The fellowship was aimed to foster closer relationship among catechumens in a more relax atmosphere. It was an enjoyable gathering.

At the end of the day, I have put on another couple kg of weight! Too much of eating.
























昨天早上 (28/10/08),屠妖节的隔天,我和太太到 FARM 去向 Andrew 拿只小狗回来。

Andrew 特地杀了一只三公斤多大阉鸡请我们吃午餐。这是一种特别饲养的鸡,它的肉特别嫩、香、甜。假如是售卖给餐馆,可拿到马币150.00 左右。

本来是拿一只,却带回来了一对,因为有伴。这是一种混交的狗,体形不会很大。

在傍晚,我们参加了慕道班的擘辣聚餐(pot-luck)。这聚餐目的是要离开课室,在较轻松的环境下,更促进慕道者间的认识和情谊。这是一个很愉快的聚餐。

一天结束之后,我看体重又加了两公斤了。确实是吃的太多了!

Sandakan-KK 山打根-亚庇 (2)

KK seafront viewed from hotel

The few days in Sandakan was very relaxing. We left Sandakan on a 45-minute flight to Kota Kinabalu on Thursday 23/10/08.

Jonathan has been to his new post for a month now. He has rented an apartment but still waiting for his belongings to be shipped from KL.

He was told 3 important things in KK:
1. get an emergency standby power unit (frequent power outage),
2. Watch the colour of your parking lot. Green, yellow and white. Different color denotes different hourly chargers.
3. Do not follow behind buses with the notice "Bus Berhenti henti". They literally stop at any time, anywhere. Follow at your own risk.

InKK, we met up with our nephew Ah Hong who is working here and goddaughter Cecilia Hui.

We also took this opportunity to visit Jenny, the brave girl who is always in our prayer.
(See pics and video below)






Ah Beng standing at the Jln Ah Chung in Beaufort
阿炳站在保佛的阿钟街











在山打根的几天非常轻松的过去了。我们在23/10/08 星期四,到四十五分钟航程外的亚庇。

我的儿子已经来到亚庇工作一个月了。他已经找到了一间公寓,但还要等他的行李从吉隆坡船运过来。

他在亚庇被告知要注意三个事项:
1. 准备紧急照明灯,因为常会有断电的状况。
2. 注意你泊车位的颜色。青、黄和白。不同颜色代表不同的收费。
3. 不要跟在巴士注有“Bus Berhenti henti" 的后面,它们随时会停下来上、下客。后果自负。

在这三天里,我们去探望了在亚庇工作的外甥,及乾女儿诗诗。

我们也乘这个机会再次拜访了勇敢的俐雯,她常常都在我们的祈祷中。再次的祝愿她学业顺利,加油!




The dangerous "Bus Berhenti Henti"
随时会停的巴士










3 lovable children of my nephew
我外甥的可爱孩子






Goddaughter Cecilia 乾女儿诗诗

Video on my trip 此行的录影 (part 1)

Video on my trip 此行的录影 (Part 2)






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Monday, October 27, 2008

Sandaka-KK 山打根-亚庇 (1)


Elizabeth saw the pictures taken in Sandakan in my Facebook site and commented " a little bulge in stomach..". The trip to Sandakan was indeed a fruitful one, including bulge in the dummy.

On our arrival in Sandakan, we were warmly received by Jerome and his wife Grace (pic right). We were grateful to Paul Chin for taking leave to be our guide and driver; Peter Lee and wife Susan, fellow legionaries Mary Yap, Monica Loh, Natalie Wong and many others for their company and warm friendship. We are happy also to have the company of Rev. Fr. Paul Loh for the trip to see Proboscis monkey.

We are blessed to be able to attend the monthly meeting of the Star of Evangelisation Curia on the night of our arrival. There were five Chinese, one English and five Bahasa Malaysia (BM) Praesidia attached to the Curia. However, since a BM Curia was formed about two weeks ago, the five BM praesidia would break off from the Chinese Curia next month. I was touched by the cooperation and harmonious relationship among the language groups.

Despite of his busy pastoral duties, Curia Spiritual Director Rev. Fr. Paul Loh was present at the meeting. His allocutio was based on the Handbook which I found to be refreshing and motivating.

What to see and what to eat in Sandakan?

Sandakan is a beautiful seaport city with beautiful coastline and green surrounding. The pace of life is slow and relax. The world renown Sipilok Orang Hutan Rehabilitation Sanctuary and Labuk Bay Proboscis Monkey Sanctuary (left pic ) are two places that put Sandakan in the world map of wildlife conservation. There are many other places of interest and islands to visit if time permits.



The seafood in Sandakan is the best in Malaysia in term of freshness and pricing. There are many other authentic local food to whet your appetite too. The local flavour fish+Bak kut Teh is a specialty you cannot get it anywhere else.

The Madras Tea (or coffee) in one of the Mamak restaurant is really really smooth and good.

The Ninth Chinese-speaking Annual Legion Fellowship was held in Sandakan in year 2000. I took this opportunity to visit some of the venue facilities to reminisce the good time we have in 2000.

The Fifth Young Legionary Fellowship 2010 will be held in Sandakan. I am sure the delegates will find Sandakan a lovely place and the fellowship a fruitful and memorable one. (see more pictures below).


panoramic view of Sandakan
山打根海景图


我的小女儿在 Facebook 看了山打根的照片后,第一个告诉我“有肚腩了”。这次山打根和亚庇一游,收获良多,肚腩尺码加大,也可算是收获之一。

到了山打根机场,马上受到陈兴勋夫妇的热情接待,使我们体验到主内兄弟之情谊。小伙子陈仪鸣还特地请假两天,全程陪伴,司机兼导游,加上圣母军团员李绵孝夫妇,叶美丽,卢佩伶,黄瑞钦等姐妹的招待及陪同,使到山打根之游美满温馨。我们也很高兴罗志康神父能够和我们作伴看长鼻猴的一日游。

圣母巧妙的安排,抵步当晚,参加了区团会议。除了五个华文及一个英文支团之外,还有五团马来文支团参与。在山打根,一个马来文区团刚刚在两个星期前成立。这五个支团目前是到华文区团实习,虚心学习,在不久之后,将会脱离这个区团,正式的开始马来文区团的操作。我也体会到两个语言区团间的融洽合作和友爱之情。

区团年轻的神师罗志康神父,铎务繁忙,但也尽量抽空出席区团会议。他的训话,依据当天所读的手册,深入浅出的给团员训诲,道出圣母军的精神和服务,团员必收益良多。

山打根有什么好玩?有什么好吃?

山打根是个美丽的海港,环境优美,生活步伐轻松。这里有举世闻名的 Sipilok 人猿保护区(左图),每天在喂食的时间,都能够看到好多人猿(Orang Hutan)。在离开市区约一个小时的车程,我们也看到闻名的长鼻喉(上右图)。全世界只有在婆罗洲才有这种猿猴的存在。当然还有美丽的小岛和很多美丽的自然奇观和景点。

至于吃吗,可多了。除了新鲜海鲜是山打根引人的地方,还有各种道地风味的广东菜肴,另你回味无穷,山打根风味的鲜鱼+肉骨茶就是其中的一项了。

值得一提的是在山打根喝到印度同胞冲泡的马德拉斯奶茶和咖啡。当饮入口时,茶香(或咖啡香)配上鲜奶,浓而不郁,喝后可说是回味无穷。

我还有机会看到2000年交流会的一些场地,包括酒店,重温当年交流会的温馨情场面。我也特别到酒徒会第一次集会的槟城小吃中心,拍照留念,当年在晚上举杯畅饮,谈笑风生的情景,仿佛历历在目。

据我所知,2010年青年圣母军交流会将在山打根举行。我想,到会的年轻人一定会很喜欢这个地方,也必定满载而归。

seated from left: Wendy, Francis, Jerome, Grace, Mary
standing from left: Paul, Monica, Natalie and us.



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